how selfish I am?

1.When going to the movies with a friend or date, you coax them into seeing your first choice.

Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

2.As a policy, you don't lend things out to people.
Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

3.You have difficulty listening to other people's problems.
Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

4.You'll only do a favor if you're going to get a better favor back in return.
Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

5.You have a bad track record when it comes to caring for pets and plants.
Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

6.When living with roommates and / or your family, you've been known to leave stuff and

messes around the house.
Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

7.At holidays, you tend not to give someone a gift unless you expect to get a gift back in return.
Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

8.When you get together with your best friend, most of your conversations tend to revolve

around what is happening in your life.
Always
Often
Sometimes

Rarely
Never

9.You've been called self-centered and / or selfish by most people who know you well.
Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

10.You will pressure or manipulate people to get your way, when you deem it necessary.
Always
Often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never

The result : You're 17% selfish,In other words, you're a warm, caring considerate person.Just make sure to get your way sometimes. There's a fine line between unselfish and pushover.

Actual result : Sometimes I do get selfish when it comes to reveal between the right and wrong answers. But most of the time, I try as much as I could to please other people and use the best words if I really really unable to help them. However, there is still someone out there that keep on telling me that I am selfish. I could not identify which part of myself that being selfish? Is it being caring and loving is called selfish? Maybe, to some other people but totally not me.